Dr. Alex Zayas leaning on a fence post in the desert

From a Boy to a Leader

Trauma, Masculinity & Latino Fatherhood: A Trauma-Informed Workshop

Dr. Alex Zayas · PhD, Leadership & Change · Phoenix, AZ · Raw story. Real tools. Break the cycle.


The problem nobody puts on the agenda

Trauma doesn’t stay in childhood. "The problem with trauma is not just in the moment of the event but the damage that is done that takes years to overcome." (Zayas, 2023, From a Boy to a Leader, p. 1)

It follows people home, to school and to work, and it shows up in how they lead. For years I led with fear, shame and anger. In 2016, about to take over a team, I started therapy. This workshop is what I learned on the way back. Raw story. Real tools. You leave with work to do.


What your people walk away with

  • The Cycle of Toxicity: how trauma passes from one generation to the next, and where the chain breaks.

  • Machismo vs. healthy masculinity: what Latino men were taught a man is, and what it costs.

  • Mental toughness and emotional calluses: armor so hurtful words lose their power.

  • Focus: one target at a time instead of carrying everything at once.

  • Ownership: no one else to blame. Own it, then make a plan to win.

  • Trauma-informed leadership: trading fear, shame and anger for authentic leadership.

  • The HEA cycle: a working model of Healing, Enhancement, Assessment .


Formats

  • Half-day or full-day workshop

  • Keynote or virtual on request

  • Certificate of attendance provided

  • Pricing on request


Who it’s for

  • Latino-serving agencies and community organizations

  • Behavioral health teams

  • School districts

  • Universities and colleges

  • Child welfare

  • Church men’s ministries

  • Corporate ERGs


A note for agencies

A lived-experience leadership workshop, not clinical treatment. Trauma-informed and secular-friendly.


Bring it to your people

Your people are carrying this whether you name it or not. Send an inquiry. I'll answer personally.